A Parent's Prayer
Lord, build me a daughter
who’ll be strong enough to know when she is weak
and brave enough to face herself when she is afraid;
one who is proud and unbending in defeat,
yet humble and gentle in victory.
Build me a daughter whose wishbone
will not be where her backbone should be;
a daughter who will first know you, and then know herself,
for that is the true foundation of all knowledge.
Lead her, I pray, not in the path of ease and comfort,
but under the stress and spur of difficulties and challenge.
There let her learn to stand in the storm,
yet have compassion for those who fall.
Build me a daughter whose heart is clear and whose goals are high;
who’ll master herself before she seeks to master others;
one who’ll learn to laugh, yet never forget how to weep;
to reach into the future, yet never forget the past.
And after all these things are hers,
add, I pray, enough of a sense of humour that, though serious,
she may never take herself too seriously.
And above all, Lord, give her enough humility to know
that true greatness requires simplicity,
true wisdom requires an open mind
and true strength requires meekness.
Only when this has been accomplished will I dare to whisper,
“I have not lived in vain.”
An adaptation of a poem by General Douglas MacArthur